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How to phrase your question to get the most from a reading.


How you phrase your question will impact the answer receive, and so will your energy when you ask your question. If you are scattered or anxious, guess what your reading will be scattered too. Before asking your question first get centered, take a few deep breaths and consider the following information when forming your question.


Questions should be specific and clearly stated.  If you ask a vague question, you’ll get a vague answer.  Be precise and you will get precise answers.


Asking simple yes or no questions, such as Am I…, Will I…, Should I…, Is ___ going to…, will not provide you with an in depth reading. Also avoid Why did… questions.


Avoid questions of timing, like when will…? What we experience as timing is quite different than what spirit experiences. The future is always subject to change. Here’s my view on predictions: I provide you with information about the potential outcome, and if you stay on your current path, it will manifest. HOWEVER, free will also plays a big part in the manifestation of your future.  That being said, if you don’t like the information you receive from about the outcome of a situation YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE THAT OUTCOME. That is where your free will comes into play.  This is why cartomancy (card reading) is a great modality to empower you to take charge of your life.


To get the most from your reading seek answers that will empower you. Help me to help you by providing me with some background information. If you want to know about your career, don’t ask a vague question like, “What direction is my career going?”  Be clear. Be specific and keep it simple. Tell me about your career, your relationship, your problem with... that way I will be able connect the messages I receive from the tarot and relay them to you in a way that relates to your specific situation.

Be strategic. Try to phrase your question(s) like this:

  • What can I do in order to achieve…?

  • What do I need to know about…?

  • What is the energy surrounding my situation with…?

  • What is blocking me from… and what do I need to work on in order to…?

  • What do I need to change in order to…?

  • What can I do to improve my…?

  • What challenges do I need to work on so that I can overcome …?

  • How can I…?

  • What is the best way to approach…?

  • Show me the outcome of...?

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